Strap on play is a fine art. Be it the simple and softer teasing visual of a beautiful woman with a large cock, sessions in deepthroat training, all the way to intense peg play, there's just something about weilding a long thick dick that brings a smile to my face.
In real life my female lovers and I use more slender strapons. I, for one, am quite petite and prefer my sex toys more my size. Though I've experimented with larger toys a handful of times in my life, I simply get more pleasure from something closer to my natural match.
However, when it comes to phone sessions with male pets, the bigger the strapon - the better! I've been known to laugh myself silly beating poor pets about the neck and ears with punishing blows from my giant Cock of Wonder (hahaha).
I can get downright nasty and mean when phone sessioning with certain personality types, and I've been known to be a patient and caring Instructor when dealing with others. How I treat you depends on the person you are and the type of chemistry we have.